could but can not

one of great pride and also sad!
dilemma in the Indonesian state
be a fertile field for other countries
believe it or not, please open your eyes wide
social institutions of society that exists and thrives in Indonesia most foreign owned and managed by Indonesian citizens.

but why did this happen?
because so far what have the state provide to the community is not well preserved, what should be solved by traditional means lead to endless conflict

irrefutable real

Events that sometimes we can not accept the reasoning is common and is all around us. Everything that happens is not a coincidence, everything is outlined and has been determined. But not rare, and no human possibility could shape their own destiny path. It's just human consciousness that has shown signs of late to respond, thus arises the term "never too late" when the term is just to encourage someone would delay notice signs have been provided.

As concrete examples in this life that I met, indeed tragic, and deserves to be told would be inappropriate but hopefully this can help us immediately aware of early signs that will be given.

More than ten years had lived alone after abandoned by her husband. An elderly widow who was about seventy years must feel the suffering of the heart again. heart wanted to be close to family owned, but the reality is much the opposite of desire, like many people said "man plans god who decide." Tragically, he must be eliminated from the house for his son who she and her husband lived. Yet during her son went to make a living for his family, they left the house to his parents for just guarded and maintained. But for ordinary people who see it will be very touched to see the treatment of children to parents like this, was moved because of how great their love for their parents to give them a decent place to live.

Everything turned upside down from what was seen over the years, after his son returned home from his job which requires them to leave the city of origin. Hope to have more friends through the rest of his life in this, the mother actually had to get hurt because of the treatment his son. Yes, the treatment that may not have occurred from our minds. Mother had to be ousted from his own home, exile is the most unreasonable and beyond the human conscience. Just because they want a house that had been occupied by his parents that they Leave it "clean". Net, whether it wanted what? Net from parents who already can not do anymore because of its structure, or the net because he wants a clean house even had to "get rid" of parents who are not helpless.

Eyes wide open society would begin the fact that so far we only heard the story of Al Qomah the rebellious to his mother. Almost the same, but not much different this happened to the child.

The pain for so many - years eventually became the cover sheet of his life story. But the fact the last time he closed the piece will live our memories and as a student.

Because what he did to his mother, he must suffer for two days untu can terminate life. It looks not acceptable in medical science though, but the real place of suffering is the end of the arms. Hhmm ... ..., a warm hug of a mother who we have always longed for, embrace unconditionally and ask for an award, the arms that can deaden the anger, tired and sad, hug that removes an issue that we face a moment. And many more miracles in the arms of mothers, and even permission to leave the world a mother peluka uga need to forgive what we have done.

Then why we should abstain, and even blocking their embrace was always given? There was no restriction and prohibition of a mother to hug her son no matter what happens, because we deliver their arms to this day!

Let us be conscious and introspective early signs that have been given to us.

Just info

Measure of disobedience to parents

Allah Almighty says: "When any one of them has aged in the protection, then do not you ever say to them saying 'ah', and do not yell at them, say unto them a noble word." (Al-Isra ' : 23).

difficult in the world and the hereafter

Imam Ja'far al-Sadiq (sa) said: "disobedience to parents, including a big sin because Allaah has made in His word as a child, the rebellious as the proud and the damned:" dutiful to my mother and he does not make me a the proud and the damned, (Letter of Mary: 32) "(She yahdhurul Faqih Man 3: 563)

please see from whichever side

Unauthorized person to see things from their perspective. But there are times to look at something the problems need to equate the views. Regardless of political interests and of course, the important norms and values it is based.
Many riots preceded by a difference of opinion, although the difference was a very beautiful thing. Why beautiful? Conscious or not, everything that is around us all the favor of the beauty of difference. We knew her opponent's words,
months x the sun (which, if one of them will be problematic or even disappear, something happened which did not want us to meet)
dark x light (dimly so where do sinners faforit)
black x white (but people are more pleased with the color gray, in solving problems)
live x dead (which many now happening in my country is the living hell out of half-life such as sleep prolonged)
No one also if we desire one of them "a good course", but all of them will be real and not just hope if we can follow their conscience. Surely we must also realize that there will be no good without evil, which our ancestors and their history already existed since the first man born in this world!
So, please we see from any side, the obvious while we respect the customs and values that exist in the community then that's how we act.

few of the many Indonesian state assets

Not easy for us especially Indonesian citizens to be able to introduce a variety of unique and natural beauty of Indonesia to the world. Quite often people - people in other countries only recognize Indonesia through tourism icon that is the island of Bali. Many people will say do not know where Indonesia is, but knows when asked "what do you know Bali?"
sadly it seems, as a great nation and has many unique natural wealth and uniqueness of the area are known only from a fraction of this vast country. This is separate from the work we as a nation and citizens of Indonesia. Then the question is "when?" and "how?"
Now we can easily introduce our country to the whole wide world. Technology is now at a very advanced stage, and it is easier for us to be able to expand our knowledge and open the way to be able to introduce us to the world Indonedia.
What can and should we know about Indonesia?
Not hard and not too easy in fact, provided we are willing and proud of what we have we can introduce what we should deliver.
Like, what the areas we were, what characterizes our area, what activities that exist in our region and attract tourists and many more things, for we are small but the experience great for international tourists. And do not close the possibility for students is a very valuable insights.
As the development of information media, today many of the lyrics by the regions in Indonesia. Through print and electronic media, through local advertising media, such as distribution of brochures and a calendar of activities which included arts and culture, which displays the advertising boards as a tourist attraction and facilities that can be obtained. This is an advancement in the field of promotion and indirect care of the wealth of Indonesia.
But the lack of recognition of local culture and very rarely done by the related offices to the public. As a result of foreign tourists who visit feel less comfortable and should seek their own information. This applies to foreign tourists, which is a back packer.But tourists who use the services of the tour will not find difficulty in deciding and get info about their destination. It was not easy and not difficult to develop a knowledge society will contribute a very large foreign exchange this country. Should not the public, at least from the location of the nearest residents to have the skill to introduce and guide foreign and local tourists. If it is still difficult, at least equip them with the usual foreign vocabulary asked by the foreign tourists. As indicated direction, distance and anything that can be found in such a tourist attraction.
It is easy to speak, but it would be easier if there was a coordinated cooperation and awareness of the benefits in the future.